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Quick answer: military funeral honors are free for an eligible veteran, when the family requests them. By law, the honor detail has at least two uniformed members of the Armed Forces, at least one from the veteran's own service branch, and the ceremony includes at a minimum the folding and presentation of the American flag to the next of kin and the playing of Taps. The requirement dates to Public Law 106-65, in effect since January 1, 2000. Honors do not pay for the funeral itself: for context, our modeled national estimate for a traditional funeral with viewing and burial is $9,140, and the VA burial allowance is a separate benefit. All modeled figures are in August 2026 dollars, built from NFDA 2023 medians adjusted for inflation, not quotes. For a line item estimate in your state, use our cost calculator.
NFDA 2023 medians adjusted to August 2026 dollars via BLS CPI for funeral expenses; 2024 BEA regional price parities. Last updated 2026-09-23.
The basic ceremony is short and formal, and it is the same core ceremony for every eligible veteran, whatever the branch. The two required elements are:
The detail itself is part of the ceremony: at least two uniformed service members, with at least one from the deceased veteran branch. The funeral director usually coordinates the timing so the detail arrives before the service, performs the ceremony at the agreed point, and leaves without interrupting the rest of the service.
The Department of Defense provides two levels. Every eligible veteran gets at least standard honors. Full honors are reserved for certain ranks, service lengths, and circumstances, and they add a larger detail:
| Level | Who it is for | What it includes |
|---|---|---|
| Standard honors | Every eligible veteran | Two person detail, flag folding and presentation, Taps |
| Full honors | Generally: Medal of Honor recipients, service members killed in action or by combat injuries, general and flag officers, senior enlisted members at pay grade E9, and veterans who retired after 20 years of service | Standard honors plus a rifle volley, pallbearers, and often a color guard, chaplain, and bugler, with 7 to 9 or more personnel in total |
The exact full honors detail varies by branch and by availability. The Army, Marine Corps, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard, and Space Force each run their own honors program, so the branch coordinator confirms what detail can be provided for a given date and location. Full honors are not something a family can buy or upgrade to: the level is set by the veteran status, not by payment.
Note the distinction from VA burial benefits: eligibility for honors and eligibility for a VA national cemetery burial or a burial allowance overlap but are not identical. Our veterans burial benefits guide covers the VA side, including free national cemetery burial, the burial flag and Presidential Memorial Certificate, and how to claim the allowance. Honors cover the ceremony. VA benefits cover the burial costs. A veteran can receive both.
Requests are normally handled first come, first served, with priority for Medal of Honor recipients and service members killed in action. That is another reason to request early: the detail is scheduled around other services that day, and a late request may not secure a detail for the time you want. If the veteran died while you are still choosing a funeral home, our step by step planning guide puts the honors request in order with the other first decisions, and our guide to paying for a funeral covers the benefits that sit alongside the free ceremony.
Yes. Military funeral honors are provided at no cost to the family by the Department of Defense, when requested for an eligible veteran. The ceremony itself costs the family nothing, but it does not pay for the funeral: the funeral home bill, the casket or urn, transportation, and any private cemetery plot are separate costs. Our veterans burial benefits guide covers the VA allowances that can help with those bills.
Military members who die while on active duty or in the Selected Reserve, former members who served on active duty and left under conditions other than dishonorable, and former Selected Reserve members who completed at least one term of enlistment or period of initial obligated service and left under conditions other than dishonorable. Members of the Commissioned Officer Corps of the Public Health Service and NOAA are also eligible. Anyone separated under dishonorable conditions, or barred from veteran benefits, is not eligible.
Tell the funeral director as early as possible and give them the DD Form 214, Certificate of Release or Discharge from Active Duty, or another discharge document showing honorable service. The funeral director normally requests the honors on the family behalf from the branch honors coordinator. Families can also call the DoD Military Funeral Honors line at 1-877-645-4667, which connects to the right branch coordinator. If the DD Form 214 is missing, request it from the National Personnel Records Center with Standard Form 180.
At a minimum, the honor detail folds the American flag and presents it to the next of kin, and Taps is played. Taps is played by a bugler when one is available, or by a ceremonial bugle that plays a recording. The detail has at least two uniformed members of the Armed Forces, and at least one member is from the deceased veteran service branch. Full honors add elements such as a rifle volley, pallbearers, and a color guard, depending on rank and circumstances.
The flag is presented to the next of kin, normally the surviving spouse, eldest child, or closest surviving relative in the order the service sets out. If no next of kin is available, it can be presented to a designated friend of the family. Only one burial flag is issued per veteran, so families should decide in advance who will receive and keep it.
Yes. Honors can be rendered at a burial, at a funeral service, or at a memorial service, and cremated remains are eligible. The detail can perform the flag folding and Taps at the service, at the graveside, or at the national cemetery. Tell the funeral director and the honors coordinator where the ceremony will take place so the detail is scheduled for the right location and time.
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